How To Be Sure, He Is Your Soulmate: Checkout The Checklist That Confirms He Is Your Mr Perfect.

The checklist for Mr. Right can be right out of a fairytale: Ivy League education, good career prospects, good to look at, nice to be with, financial security and so on. But the truth of the matter is that someone’s Mr. Right could easily be another person’s Mr. Wrong. So, how do you separate the pearl from the oysters? How can you find the man of your dreams without meeting a beautiful wife in tow? Check out these qualities and see if you can find a man who lives up to them….this should definitely put you on the right path.

#1 Thoughtful and Considerate

You need a keeper, not a boy toy who lets you foot his bills and open doors for him. Your Mr. Right should be an independent thinker who does not need to be anything else but a gentleman. He never calls anyone names (even if they do deserve it) and he always holds the door open for you. If your special someone can be a prince charming when it comes to manners, what more can a girl ask for?

#2 Caring and Loving

Mr. Right is someone who remembers your favourite songs, all your childhood stories, the way you like your pasta and the places you love going to. He will note your favourite anecdotes and jokes and he will also be the one to make you laugh. When you speak, he should really listen and not just hear.

#3 Man of Action

Actions speak louder than words. If he promises you the moon and the stars, and fails to prove you are an investment worth his time, you can be sure that you have dialled the wrong number. He should be sincere towards you and the relationship. Small things like remembering your anniversary or favourite poem can often be a big indicator of just how much he cares for you.

#4 Family Man

Everyone enjoys the party guy….till the party lasts. But life is more than just merrymaking. It is a rollercoaster and you need a strong and steady hand to guide you through the ups and downs. A family man is someone who can appreciate quality time with you and value family concepts. He is honest, loyal, hardworking and dedicated. He will stick with you through thick or thin.


The Aretha Franklin song R.E.S.P.E.C.T captures the true essence of a relationship where dollar bills shouldn’t have to matter. In a money centric world, where wealth and net asset value are given preference over a good heart and a kind soul, don’t be the material girl because you never know when the stock market sinks and your Mr. Rich becomes an Average Joe.


1 Comment

  • shiva April 6, 2018 at 10:18 am Reply

    Thoughtful and Considerate- this is the most important attribute.

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